Today, we were married. After 3 years we took that step. This will not be recognized by the government – we do not file a license with the state. We cannot go to City Hall, but we can bring everyone we love together. We stand in front of our friends and family. They share their stories, we share our tears. Everyone involved put so much work and heart into this. In the end, we know that God was looking down and smiling. It was the most beautiful day I could imagine. Some day our marriage will be recognized by everyone, but it doesn’t matter. Some day we will file our marriage license, but it will only be paper, as today we are married.